I am not going to do an entire list tonight because I need to just quickly add one thing. Today has been fabulous. It is mother's day weekend and I can't imagine how we could of spent the day any better. To top it off....Mike gave me my gift.
Two years ago in May we were on a family trip to San Diego. We had been at the hotel for a few short hours when I lost my most prized possession (second to my wedding ring). With my littles staring at me for guidance and watching my actions I realized I needed to stay calm so they learned how to stay calm in times of distress instead of falling on the floor in a heap, sobbing for my missing earring. It's a bit dramatic-- I get it -- and don't worry -- I kept my head high though my heart stayed at the pit of my stomach for most of the trip. For the past two years Mike and I have kept our eyes open for similar earrings ....I guess to help soften the blow.
This year for Mother's Day Mike had custom diamond earrings made to match the one that I lost. This thoughtful thoughtful gift left me absolutely speechless. I know that there are no words to express my gratitude for him and his love that surrounds me.
I know that these earring are just things. Trust me, I had to tell myself that over and over so I would not fret over their loss. Things are not people and experiences and memories. Things are things.
BUT these new earrings, they make me feel close to my sister. During this weekend, and the month of May, the times that I can't get her out of my head -- they make me feel so close to her.
Thank you Mike for such a beautiful, thoughtful gift. My sister was my favorite mom to do this motherhood thing with and now these earrings will remind me that she is always here with me.
Thank you.
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